Why do trolls bother? After all, they have to come across the blog entry, whether on Google or through the fatosphere feed (which denotes a whole 'nother level of unhealthy stalking behaviour) read through an entry (theoretically) and then actually take the time to come up with a reply, type it out, go through the "hidden pictures" anti-spam rigmarole.....for what? Are they so pantingly desperate for a chance to be nasty?
Durkheim and the buzzword "morality" aside, a society develops rules of conduct (written or unwritten) which allows it to function. You'll see that in a close-knit society people are much less likely to be rude and/or violent towards each other (not that its impossible, especially in familial abuse). This is because there are clear repercussions which make the individual responsible for their actions. Misbehavior is more likely to reflect on them throughout their lives.
As our "society" expands to a larger community where you cannot possibly know everyone, you become less accountable for your behaviour. After all, the odds of you ever meeting that person you were rude to again are slim. You won't be reminded of your rude behavior or face social consequences such as ostracization.
As the internet expands our society to a global scale we find that both the chance of face to face accountability is reduced to almost nothing. The dehumanization of text-only communication reduces empathy and the wide mixture of cultures with different rules of conduct confuses the matter further. The mature, responsible person is able to adjust their interpersonal rules of conduct and apply them online as if they were face to face.
It's interesting. Most trolls, by their behavior, would fit many of the signs of a sociopathic personality if they were acting as they do to people outside the internet. Eliminating body language doesn't mean that behavior automatically goes from crazy to rude.
We can also gain insight into those who leave hate-comments by studying the Psychology of Hate. I do think that the profile and psychology of irrational haters is comparable regardless of the target. (NOT making a value judgment or comparison between fat-hate and racism!). Haters, and trolls, are unsure of their social identity. When social identity is threatened people often cling to irrational belief, willing to defend it violently rather than adapt to the new social reality.
Hate can simply be an immature device to achieve detachment. When a troll posts a nasty comment about my weight, they are simply trying to say "I don't want to identify with you" (without, of course, using their words like a grownup). If they really examined their motivations, they'd find that they don't have to be anything like me (and probably aren't.) They don't have to somehow violently separate themselves from me in order to avoid the social stigma they fear. They don't have to post a comment to convince themselves they're not just separated from me by the narrowest margin of social whim.
Or maybe they do, because they fear it might be so.
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Brava!
Piffle;
Agreed! We may be getting closer to an actual classification for these critters.
Deep. An excellent analysis of the Common Troll.
I LOVE this, I have wondered why trolls are the way they are.. and do what they do myself... especially when you do think about it a bit deeper and realize that on alot of these blogs it is NOT easy to post a comment, there is often a few steps involved so as to discourage such trolling. So the ones that do go to all the effort just to vomit out some hate drivel, well it just seems so weird and illogical to me and I am sorry but they must have a whole lot of hate inside of them to be that motivated. I also wish Trolls of the concernicus variety would realize they are 99% of the time hurting more than they are helping.
Though I still have not wrapped my head around the word "fat acceptance" I believe it is what I have been advocating in Asia for the last 10 years.
Before I found your blog I did not know other people had the same feelings.
I find the West (America) very fat acceptant and fat tolerant compared to Asia. I love going to American for vacation - I am not the biggest person on the beach. I can sit on a chair without worrying about it breaking. I can order one meal and be full. No one stares at me.
Of course this is offensive to some people in America as you might not feel like a tolerant nation. I remind you, your feelings are valid - I am only offering a comparison.
Being thin will not make me a better father, husband, friend, son or human being (period). I wish more people could simply accept this.
Cheers and good luck to you
people troll because they enjoy their victim's reactions. i'm sure many trolls would be pleased with what you've posted right here...
their goal is not to be right or wrong, only to provoke some kind of response.
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