tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1559850219424554239.post7114338267667490845..comments2023-09-25T11:48:08.067-04:00Comments on Unapologetically Fat: Giving up the FantasyJoGeekhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16093660035883346402noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1559850219424554239.post-52337935262052963542010-11-14T09:53:19.426-05:002010-11-14T09:53:19.426-05:00I enjoyed your article. I clock in at 280, and I&#...I enjoyed your article. I clock in at 280, and I've been playing polo for 10 years. I have a string of large, fast Quarter Horses, and one very stout Morgan. Being large, you must be a better rider than light people to keep from injuring the horse. Balance and good saddling are key! I've never had one of my horses go lame, get back sore, or have any other problems related to my weight. People can say what they want, but I know what I know about this from experience, stay toned and athletic, and I encourage you to go ride!Blackbirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07151609737220986204noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1559850219424554239.post-31631730837086116152009-06-18T15:05:20.114-04:002009-06-18T15:05:20.114-04:00If you would email me, I have a picture of me ridi...If you would email me, I have a picture of me riding my mare today that made me cry and should make you feel reinforced in your thoughts. <br /><br />This is one fat chick that rides everyday.<br /><br />MicheleMichelehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13874818005219201098noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1559850219424554239.post-86494960781872177192009-02-23T23:44:00.000-05:002009-02-23T23:44:00.000-05:00Yes you can ride if you are 300 pounds. Any heavie...Yes you can ride if you are 300 pounds. Any heavier breed or stout enough quarter horse should do just fine. I encourage you to go ahead with it and find someone with a big enough horse or go buy your own. <BR/>Ive been 300pds and ridden fine. Screw what people say.From the hole inside your headhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06665457815172276056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1559850219424554239.post-3575220624823000622008-02-06T19:59:00.000-05:002008-02-06T19:59:00.000-05:00Thanks for the suggestions! I found a stable with...Thanks for the suggestions! I found a stable with Irish Draughts, but they're young ones still being trained. The woman on the phone was really nice about it, and is checking with some owners she knows with larger horses to see if they want to give lessons.JoGeekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16093660035883346402noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1559850219424554239.post-37362346761973922102008-02-06T18:47:00.000-05:002008-02-06T18:47:00.000-05:00The conformation of the horse can be more importan...The conformation of the horse can be more important than their height or size. Horses with sturdy wide-set legs will be much better weight-carriers than those with narrow-set legs. Clydesdale crosses (usually with thoroughbreds or the various warmbloods) are becoming more popular here - not quite as spectacularly large as Clydesdales, but retaining the strength and endurance. They're almost like a "maxi-pony"! :) <BR/><BR/>Irish Draught Horses are also good weight carriers - they were often the horse of choice for larger people who did foxhunting as they're strongly built but nimble. Andalusians and similar types like Friesians, Lusitanos and Lipizzaners are good too.<BR/><BR/>And the saddle! Australian stock saddles, Western saddles, and hybrid endurance saddles are good for those of us with big arses. :)Harpyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10452128299643756272noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1559850219424554239.post-38444181213161410032008-02-06T18:10:00.000-05:002008-02-06T18:10:00.000-05:00One theory I've had about horses- long ago, when t...One theory I've had about horses- long ago, when there was much more riding, most of the people who had horses had large, sturdy breeds. You wouldn't use a valuable animal just for a bit of riding around. You'd want something that you could hook up to a wagon or a plow too. Or, if you were a knight in the middle ages, something that could carry you and your hundred something pounds of steel plate armor all day. These days, less people who have horses have such practical considerations in mind. There's a lot of riding as athletic event, racing, jumping, etc. where a lighter, less sturdy horse would have an advantage. So, the usual riding stable would have more of the lighter horses. <BR/><BR/>Good luck with your dream. I love riding too, though I haven't done much of it, just enough to know that I sit in the saddle like a bag of potatoes. I'd love to do lots more, but even if I could find a place that would accept me as a 265 pound rider, I couldn't get to it. I don't have a car and the nearest place to ride at all is like 45 minutes away by car. Not that I would go there anyway. The last time I went with my girl scout troop, I was like five pounds over their limit and the woman at the place was really super bitchy about it and made me cry.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1559850219424554239.post-53782945149428618902008-02-06T13:16:00.000-05:002008-02-06T13:16:00.000-05:00miriam-heddy: You know that's an interesting ques...miriam-heddy: You know that's an interesting question, and I don't really have any hard evidence either way. I do know that there's a real, measurable difference between how a novice rider and an experienced rider sit a horse. A novice bouncing around on the horse's kidneys is hard on a horse regardless of weight. It's like the difference between carrying a 50 pound backpack or a 50 pound hyperactive child. You can carry a much heavier load if it's well balanced. For those who used horses for primary transportation, they were probably raised riding and didn't have to learn as heavy adults. <BR/><BR/>Also remember that a lot of people traveled by cart, carriage, sledge, sedan, etc. instead of horseback. <BR/><BR/>You may be absolutely right in that there really isn't that big of a difference, but I doubt I'm going to find an owner willing to risk the experiment on their own horse for the sake of a stranger :-)JoGeekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16093660035883346402noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1559850219424554239.post-58215246127551972312008-02-06T12:56:00.000-05:002008-02-06T12:56:00.000-05:00miriam-heddy, you're forgetting carriages and wago...miriam-heddy, you're forgetting carriages and wagons and the like - all the ways to get around that use horse power without anyone sitting directly on the horse's spine.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1559850219424554239.post-81294024728381655092008-02-06T12:08:00.000-05:002008-02-06T12:08:00.000-05:00If you weren't so tall, I'd recomend maybe a Vanne...If you weren't so tall, I'd recomend maybe a Vanner horse? They're a clydesdale mix and very, very pretty (the most important attribute, right? LOL). However, they aren't as tall as a Clydesdale so I don't know if they'd be too short for your long, lovely legs.<BR/><BR/>Good luck finding a place and an appropriate horse!Brigid Keelyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09558327183683074633noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1559850219424554239.post-43796583361362633032008-02-06T11:50:00.000-05:002008-02-06T11:50:00.000-05:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1559850219424554239.post-92013327979136929612008-02-06T11:43:00.000-05:002008-02-06T11:43:00.000-05:00Good for you!!! I have a friend who rode a Clydes...Good for you!!! <BR/><BR/>I have a friend who rode a Clydesdale, and she said she didn't think she could go back to regular riding horses. She said the Clyde's broad back was so much more comfortable to sit on, like an easy chair compared to regular riding horses. <BR/><BR/>Good luck!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1559850219424554239.post-13377428908174118722008-02-06T11:33:00.000-05:002008-02-06T11:33:00.000-05:00I'm curious about the horse weight limit. That see...I'm curious about the horse weight limit. That seems counterintuitive to me, given that, at one time (not all *that* long ago), everyone rode horses to get around.<BR/><BR/>Are they breeding more spindly horses nowadays? Or is it the *kind* of riding that matters? I can see where doing something poofy like jumping (which is like horsey performance art rather than riding) might put a strain on a horse to begin with. And I can understand why, with racing, a wee, light rider is a good thing. But for just plain old riding, aren't horses (weighing massively more than humans) generally quite capable of carrying people weighing far, far less than they do? How did horses carry men in the 200-300lb range a century ago?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1559850219424554239.post-85320040986781500142008-02-06T11:20:00.000-05:002008-02-06T11:20:00.000-05:00Woo hoo! I can't wait to hear what happens!Woo hoo! I can't wait to hear what happens!Kate Hardinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06616859691620740674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1559850219424554239.post-86065282889178319512008-02-06T10:44:00.000-05:002008-02-06T10:44:00.000-05:00Oh my goodness thank you. I keep going back to Ka...Oh my goodness thank you. I keep going back to Kate's FOBT blog whenever I start feeling down but to see someone play it out and set down their own fantasty (to which I have to admit I feel a strong connection as I love horses and really miss riding) and how they plan to break out of it has really inspired me.<BR/><BR/>Thank you for sharing and encouraging me and others as well I'm sure to start finding those dreams we've been putting off and actually set them in motion! :)April Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05939666431626698601noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1559850219424554239.post-75680409767353336772008-02-06T10:20:00.000-05:002008-02-06T10:20:00.000-05:00What fillyjonk said!What fillyjonk said!Liz Millerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09469435277058701080noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1559850219424554239.post-63428229834782672392008-02-06T09:37:00.000-05:002008-02-06T09:37:00.000-05:00Goddamn this post is awesome. Please please pleas...Goddamn this post is awesome. Please please please keep us updated as events unfold!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1559850219424554239.post-6365250036255290432008-02-06T08:54:00.000-05:002008-02-06T08:54:00.000-05:00Thank you for this. Inspires me to stir up some ol...Thank you for this. Inspires me to stir up some old dreams and see what I can do about making them come true. <BR/><BR/>If it helps any, I believe in you and your dream. Bravo!Kathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10712786173626176237noreply@blogger.com